You’ve set aside the time and gathered your materials for quiet time. The house is (relatively) quiet and you are ready to spend some time with God.
There’s just one problem …
You don’t know where to start. What should you read or study? What should you pray about?
One struggle I hear all the time is that women have no idea what to do during their quiet time with God. It can be confusing and frustrating really hinder spiritual growth.
I used to feel the same way. But I have found a few things that help me when I feel stuck.
Keys to an Effective Quiet Time
I’ve said it before, but I’ll repeat it here. I believe that the two keys to having a successful and effective quiet time are prayer and Bible study. Bible study can encompass a lot of things, reading the Scriptures, digging in and memorizing them, etc. But a lot of times, people get stuck because they have no idea what they should be studying.
The Bible is this big, huge book. There are so many topics and it can be hard to know where to start. Today, I want to share a few tips that I hope will help you not get stuck trying to figure out what to study.
Tools to Make Study Time More Effective
First, you need a tool that will help you find verses of Scripture when you need them. I like to have a concordance. When I was young, every Bible that I had had its own concordance in the back.
A concordance, for those of you who don’t know, is like an index for your Bible. You can flip to the back and look up a person or a topic, and it will give you a list of Scriptures. Nowadays, Bibles don’t seem to come with built-in lengthy concordances, but you can buy them separately. I recommend Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible. Now this one is huge, but I love it.
If I want to look up a topic or a person, I can just pull out my concordance and look up a word like “faith.” My concordance will give me a list of all the verses that talk about that topic in the Old Testament and the New Testament. That helps me to create a plan for what I am studying or reading.
But I can hear you ask, “How do I figure out what to look up in my new, giant concordance?” Great question!
What Are You Struggling With?
One idea is to ask yourself what you are currently struggling with. Or if you’re a mom, ask yourself what your children are struggling with. My oldest son has a bit of a temper problem (which I must admit he gets honestly. Both of his parents have temper issues.) For a long time, I was having a hard time reaching his heart and talking to him about his anger.
One month, I decided to focus my own Bible time on learning about anger and specifically what God says about anger and self-control so that I could help him more. So that’s exactly what I did. I got my concordance out and looked up anger. And every day in my quiet time, I read and studied what the Bible had to say about anger.
So that’s one way to do it, is choose something that you’re struggling with.
Pick a Book, Any Book
Another thing you can do is pick a book of the Bible. Maybe you choose the book of James. One of my boys is reading through the book of James right now because it’s something he wanted to do. Picking a book to focus on is a great way to have a plan for what you want to study.
Look at the Calendar
Another thing you can do it look at the Biblical calendar. You will see that there are lots of big events that go on: Passover, Christmas, Easter. That is also a way to pick something to study. When December rolls around and it’s Advent season, what a great time to study the prophecies that foretold the coming of the Messiah.
What Do You Want to Know?
Is there something you just want to learn more about? I have done this many times. Just last year, I wanted to learn all I could about prayer. I wanted to know what God said about prayer and what was the right way to pray. I looked up every verse that I could find on the topic of prayer.
This is probably my favorite way to study and read is to just dig in deep on something that interests me. You could also choose a person to study. Maybe you want to study the life of Paul or Abraham or the women of the Bible. These are all themes that will help you focus on what you can study in your devotional time so that you have a plan and you aren’t spending the 5-10 minutes you set aside trying to figure out what to read. You’ve got a plan.
Check out this post on my blog where I show you how to create your own Bible reading plan.
Putting It All Together
So basically, you’re going to use your concordance to look up all verses on your topic or person, and you’re going to write them down. And then you can decide to read one of those verses every day for the next month. And that becomes your reading plan.
So when you sit down for your devotion time, you have your reading plan. If you’re on Day 1, you know what you need to read for that day. Then you spend your reading and studying that verse and focusing on that throughout your day.
The Ultimate Tip for Bible Study
I hope those tips help you, but I do want to leave you with one final, ultimate tip.
Yes, pray and ask God what it is that He wants you to learn about, what He wants you to work on, what He wants to reveal to you during your time with Him. He is faithful to answer those questions. He says, “If you want wisdom, just ask for it”, and He will give it. He gives it freely. Sometimes we have not because we don’t ask. So ask Him for direction, and He will be faithful to answer that question.
Resources for your Quiet Time: